“It seems that when you have cancer you are a brave battler against the disease, but when you have Alzheimer’s you are an old fart. That’s how people see you. It makes you feel quite alone.”
i really hate this but i spent too much time on it not to publish it, u feel me
ok so im completely bored as hell and i need some fics to read. can people suggest some please. like genuinely suggest them (last time i did this people just reblogged the post and said nothing. like, i need fics not notes.)
I don’t rec all that often, so I don’t have a masterpost or anything, but I have some Jily fic recs here and some Hinny here. If that’s any help at all.
Ice cream for dinner sounds like a poor life choice, but it’s also the most appealing life choice right now, so….
Hey, I'm a freshman and I'm in love with a junior? We're close friends and he knows that I like him. I also wanna have sex with him and I also told him that. Advice?
I’m full of advice nonnie, about almost everything! Whether it’s good advice, and whether you want to take it, is entirely up to you.
So here are what I would consider the important things for you to consider:
- Be very, very sure of exactly what you want out of this before you do anything. Do you want to date this person? And are you thinking of having sex only in the frame of a relationship? Or are you okay with the idea of having sex without any sort of commitment? Either is fine. There’s no right or wrong when it comes to decisions that you make about your body. I just want you to be very sure that you know what you’re doing before you do it. Think about it carefully, and make sure that you know what you really want. It’s important to be honest with yourself.
- Make sure that both of you are on the same page about your expectations. It sounds like you’ve talked about this quite openly, which is great because communication is 100% the most important thing about sex and relationships imo. So they know that you’re in love with them, but do you know their feelings for you? If you do decide to date or have sex, are you both clear on what you want out of it? Does one or both of you expect a lasting relationship? Are you clear on how much commitment you/they want? Make sure you talk about it all properly; the fact that you’re good friends can only be in your favour here, because you will probably find it much easier to be open with each other.
- Make sure you are aware of the potential consequences, and that you are okay with them. If one of you changes your mind about what your expectations/wants are, is your friendship going to suffer? Is it going to become really awkward between you if you date and it goes wrong? Just think about the pros and cons, weigh them all up and then make your decision. There isn’t a right or wrong one, I just want to make sure that you’ll have no regrets here.
- And finally, on the subject of sex: talking about it is important. Make sure that you both know where you stand on it. Is one of you more experienced than the other? Are you clear about contraceptive methods and which you’ll use? (if that’s an issue)
But nonnie, what you do is entirely down to you, and the only thing you really need to worry about here is what will make you, and the person that you’re in love with, happy. Give it some thought, weigh it all up, and then decide what you want to do. Good luck with it x
(also I tried to avoid making assumptions about your gender/sexuality, but if I slipped up I’m very sorry!)
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A fairly accurate representation of the sort of face I make when I get one of these sort of messages tbh.
Thank you <3